Kiss OR speak?

King Solomon said, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”

We are shaping somebody's reality by just using the right words for them. Words are the sharpest weapon of mankind. How we use them is up to us. While some could heal broken hearts, some could force someone to give up on life.
The power is mostly in our mouths. I feel, its not just good thoughts or deeds that makes us a good human being. Its basically the words we use that matters, that helps to develop people.
The right words at the right time might inspire someone to live a little, laugh a little or put in a little more effort. Yes, there are definitely times when our ego or temper seems to take over our mind and heart, and that is the time when we have to be extra careful while choosing our words. We must taste the words we use before we spit them out. Don't let something as silly as misunderstandings, a rough day at work, or a hot headed boss be a reason that you throw out words which might end up hurting the people who you never intend to. I mean, what's the whole point anyways? Likewise, when someone feels a major setback in their lives, (let's face it, we all have), nobody likes being told what they shouldn't have done. That makes it just worst.

Now, for the bigger debate. Unspoken words. Words left unsaid could be hurtful. I mean, would it hurt you to say something good once in a while? How hard could it be to say, you look nice or the food was good? Appreciation is always a warm gesture if you want to win someone. An encouraging word wouldn't kill you. A lot of relationships end because people don't like to talk things out. Distance is never a problem, but silence is. This generation assumes and ends. There's no in between. Everything starts with a #truelove and ends with updating "Single" on facebook. Nobody bothers to pick up the phone and talk. 

You have the strongest weapon that could bring the most powerful feeling in someone. Words and happiness.
So, pick up any sword you want, but think twice before choosing your pen.